We live in a society entrenched in technology and social media. Recently, a survey found that over 1 billion people checked their Facebook feeds over the course of one day. That’s about 1 in 7 people in the world!

Interestingly, social media plays an important role in Family Law matters. On one hand, social media can help parents to stay connected with their children through instant messages, photos, status updates and the like. A Parenting Order may even include a provision allowing children to communicate with their parents through Facebook, Instagram, twitter and other social media platforms when they are not spending time with them. 

On the other hand, social media can be a dangerous tool. 

The risks of using social media to vent during family law matters

During Family Law matters, things can get particularly stressful and it is common for parties in proceedings to turn to social media to vent their frustration by posting nasty, derogatory comments that usually accompanied by a barrage of replies from family and friends supporting their post and cheering them on. While some people may do so without giving it a second thought, it can have serious legal consequences. 

Very often, Family Lawyers will trawl through the other party’s social media feed to find damaging material to include in their client’s affidavit material. This also extends to emails, text messages, letters and any other material the party have sent to their ex-spouse over the years which may be negative and derogatory in nature.  

More importantly, what a party may think is a harmless Facebook post venting about their ex-spouse’s affidavit material or an expert witness’s recommendations can actually be an offence punishable by up to 1 year imprisonment. 

ection 121 of the Family Law Act 1975 makes it an offence to publish any account of proceedings or images which identifies a party and/or child involved in family law proceedings. Suddenly, a Facebook status that was written in a 20 second bout of frustration and anger could lead to jail time!

A recent case study

In the recent case of Lackey and Mae [2013] FMCAfam 284, the Father in Family Law proceedings posted negative and derogatory comments about the Court, the Independent Children’s Lawyer appointed by the Court, expert witnesses and the Mother on his Facebook account. The Court accepted that these posts were a form of cyber bullying and in breach of Section 121 of the Family Law Act. 

The Court ordered that the Father immediately remove all offending material and that he and the paternal family be restrained from publishing or otherwise distributing any material, by electronic means or otherwise, relating to the Family Law proceedings, the children, the Mother or any member of the Mother’s immediate family including but not limited to publication on Facebook or other social media sites. 

The Judge also noted that any further breach of the Order would incur a penalty of a bond, or other “more severe penalty”. The Marshal of the Court and the Australian Federal Police were provided with copies of all material filed in the proceedings. They were requested by the Judge to monitor the Father and the paternal family’s social media accounts for a period of two years for breaches of the Order and, if necessary, to refer the matter to the Australia Federal Police for possible prosecution. 

Be mindful of what you post

It is clear then that the Family Law Courts are increasingly willing to impose their jurisdiction across all social media platforms and hold parties accountable for their bad ‘netiquette’. Once a status is posted or a picture is uploaded, it is considered public and cannot be retracted. It is therefore very important for parties in Family Law proceedings to be mindful of what they post and to think twice before they turn to social media to blow off steam. As many would say, “If you have a problem - face it, don’t Facebook it”.